Her Higher Vibes

Written by Ms. IGee

One thing about my life is: there isn’t a lack of drama. From the chaotic headlines I read, the chaos & drama I view, to the efforts & attempts made to bring drama & chaos into my life, in fact drama isn’t far from most of us. It’s like the background noise to modern living — always humming, always present, always ready to grab attention. But how we handle the drama is what sets us apart. Drama is always present as most energies that surround us are like paid actors—meant to either enlighten or distract us. Think about it like this, If chaos is the enemy energy then the drama you view is the red flag.

The Energy We Bring Fourth

A lot of people get confused, mistaking my bubbly personality for simplicity, or assuming that a big smile means a small mind. They misunderstand that joy can coexist with intelligence, that warmth can walk hand-in-hand with boundaries, and that laughter doesn’t mean weakness. I’m bubbly, yes — but I’m also rooted. I lead with wisdom, I carry experience, and I stand firm on what I say.

And let’s be honest — being talked about is a part of that. When you choose to live out loud, to show up fully, to express yourself, somebody somewhere won’t know how to handle it. They’ll whisper, assume, exaggerate, misinterpret, and project. But being talked about isn’t always bad. Sometimes it’s just proof that you’re visible. That you exist. That you matter.

How You Handle Others Thoughts About You Can Determine A Blessing Or A Lesson

The truth is, the world has a way of circling around anybody who dares to rise. If you’re quiet, they’ll wonder why. If you speak, they’ll criticize how. If you shine, they’ll look for the dimmer switch. But if someone has the time to speak on your name, it means your name has weight. You can’t be discussed if you’re irrelevant. You can’t be debated if you’re forgettable. Being talked about simply means you’re being thought about — and not everyone gets that privilege.

So instead of shrinking, I choose to evolve. Instead of defending who I am, I define who I am. Drama may surround me, but I refuse to be consumed by it. I let people talk while I transform. I let them analyze while I actualize. I let them watch while I work. Because the loudest noise in the room never shook my purpose — and it never will.

At the end of the day like anyone I don’t want slander about my character or gossip about my life, at the end of the day my growth should not trigger others especially because I’m doing it for my own mental health but if it’s slander I’d rather be talked about & prove them wrong & I’d rather be the real trend setter than the copycat & I’d rather be me than a version designed for others comfort.

Regardless… at the end of the day, the day gotta end but in the end the drama don’t gotta take you down with it✨

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